Wednesday, 4 July 2012

Friendhip: who has it better?

                           Heyya Guys! I know its been time but u Know engineering exams got my month over. So after exams Rains are there to make me miserable. I hate rains.. I m not surprised that u r surprised reading this! :D Some were shocked knowing these u r just surprised. So this vacations would be a indoor thing though I doubt it would be much as a vacation. So this question was eating me up ( may be I m exaggerating, but it was on my mind before my exams started). 'Do friendship between two boys is better than it is between two girls?'  I would love to have ur answers and opinions. I tried to find its answers for it.

                           So I asked a few boys and a few girls and their first answer was a counter question. :D 'Why such a question?' But they gave their opinions. Most boys said that girls are closer to each other and their friendship is better. And my gender said that boys have better friendship as they don't have a mess of emotional thing coming in between. Boys say Girls have their own importance and understanding in their friendship and it works for them. While Girls think that boys have easy going friendship. They don't have that trust and same way of thinking shit coming in between their friendship.

                          For me I don't have a 'very good' rapport with some of my girl-friends with  exceptions. Its just friendship tag between us. May be the exception is the reason for that. They feel I don't have time left out for them. I use all my time for one girl. And yes I agree she is my priority but its not like I don't try. A little help is all I need from their side. But girls have this problem. Sometimes they don't get the point. Seeing my boy classmates I envy them. They don't have emotional shit between them in their friendship. I happy at least I have a few still. They don't mind if I call and talk to any length of time. They r just happy as me to talk with me.They don't mind if I rant all about her. They r just better they know our closeness. But with the fact that I like to have more friends just makes me think more. I never had to try hard making friends but I don't what is happening now.

                          I though got some neutral comments.Some say nothing is important that true friendship. I know but still question remains the same. So tell me what do u think. Do boys have it better. Why do u think so? I need answers. I know I maybe presenting a stupid question but still I want to know ur thoughts. I would love to.


(P.S I want to come soon again. Bye, Cya and take care till then and yeah don't forget to comment.)

1 comment:

  1. Some friendships are deeper than others, usually because they've been friends longer, or through hard times together, or something like that. but Guys are more accepting of things, they talk shit of course, but they don't do it a lot and they don't do it to be mean. They do it because they care and they want to know what other friends think or whatever.A lot of girls talk shit out of spite. They can't help it. It is just their thing to do. THEY WANT DRAMA and all that. And it makes them feel better.Guys have an emotional side they just feel the need to hide it and guys tend to, in my opinion, be more loyal to their true friends.

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